0:00 Would you like to use real life English phrases
0:04 that real people use every day,
0:07 not that old textbook stuff?
0:09 If the answer is yes, you're in the right place.
0:13 Hi, I'm Vanessa from speakenglishwithvanessa.com.
0:17 And here on my YouTube channel, you will learn real life English,
0:22 the way that real people speak in the real world.
0:25 Today you are going to learn 10 common phrases
0:28 that I use every day in my daily life
0:32 and you can too.
0:33 But before we learn these 10 phrases, you need to know something.
0:38 You can listen and watch vocabulary lessons all day in English
0:43 and you will never remember it unless you use it yourself.
0:48 So today I have something special for you.
0:51 Like usual, I have created a free PDF worksheet for you
0:55 that includes all of today's important vocabulary,
0:59 but I want you to be able to use today's vocabulary yourself.
1:04 So, hidden inside that free PDF worksheet, there is a link.
1:09 This is a free link.
1:10 You could just click on it
1:11 and you will be able to download an audio where you can speak out
1:16 loud with me.
1:18 We will be repeating these sentences
1:20 that you hear today in this lesson out loud together.
1:24 You will be able to use your own voice in English repeating my pronunciation,
1:29 repeating my sentence structure, and that way you can use it yourself.
1:34 The key to never forgetting.
1:36 So, how can you get this free PDF worksheet plus bonus speaking practice?
1:41 Just click on the link in the description, enter your name and email address,
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2:08 plus bonus speaking practice. and it will be my gift to you.
2:13 Let's get started with our 10 important phrases that I use every day.
2:18 Plus, there is a bonus phrase at the end
2:21 that includes a very important difference between American English
2:25 and British English.
2:27 I made this mistake with British English many years ago,
2:31 and I don't want you to make that mistake.
2:33 So, wait till the end of this lesson,
2:34 and I will tell you exactly how to avoid the mistake that I made.
2:38 Everyday English phrase number one is inside out.
2:45 This shirt that you have probably seen me wear in my English lessons is
2:50 inside out.
2:52 This is a fixed phrase and you will never hear it any other way.
2:56 So, it is a great one to memorize.
2:59 This shirt is inside out.
3:01 Now, this was a phrase
3:02 that I used in my recent video where I was showing you the laundry
3:07 and folding clothes.
3:09 So, what we're going to do is you're going to see the original clip
3:12 from that conversation and how I used it.
3:15 This is another way
3:16 that will help you remember it
3:18 because you are seeing it in various contexts.
3:21 And then, of course,
3:22 I hope you will be repeating these sentences with me in the free downloadable
3:26 audio as well.
3:27 So, let's see the original clip
3:29 so that you can see how inside out was used.
3:33 Let's watch.
3:34 First, if a shirt is inside out, like this one was,
3:38 I have to turn it right side out.
3:40 Isn't that kind of a strange expression?
3:43 Everyday expression number two is, what do I do now?
3:48 I need to turn this shirt right side out.
3:53 Right side out.
3:55 Both of these phrases use the word out inside out and right side out.
4:02 This is a great fixed phrase to use.
4:04 And you can turn any piece of clothing right side out.
4:08 You can even turn a pillowcase right side out.
4:12 When I make my bed,
4:13 I turn the pillowcase right side out before putting it on my pillow.
4:18 All right, let's watch how that was used in the original context.
4:22 Usually for my kids, because they're small, they're young,
4:26 they can turn their clothes right side out,
4:30 but I think if I do it while I'm doing the laundry,
4:34 it kind of saves some hassle.
4:37 English phrase that I use every day.
4:39 Number three is comfy.
4:43 Comfy.
4:44 This sweater is so comfy.
4:46 I wear it almost every day in the fall.
4:49 It's true.
4:49 I was wearing it before I filmed this lesson.
4:52 And what does the word comfy mean?
4:55 You can probably guess.
4:56 It is a shortened version of the word comfortable.
5:02 Notice the pronunciation of this full word.
5:05 Comfortable.
5:10 Comfortable.
5:10 But good news, we often shorten this word and just say comfy.
5:15 Comfy.
5:16 So, lots of things can be comfy.
5:18 Clothes can be comfy.
5:20 Maybe even a house can be comfy.
5:23 If it is a comfortable place to relax and spend time, oh,
5:28 what a comfy house you have.
5:30 This is simply a shortened way to say comfortable.
5:34 All right, let's see how I used it in that original context.
5:37 These are really comfortable pants,
5:39 and my oldest son refuses to wear anything else except for sweatpants.
5:45 Whatever.
5:45 I don't really care.
5:46 It's comfy.
5:47 English phrase that I use every day.
5:50 Number four is to clean up a mess.
5:54 I use this one probably 10 times a day.
5:57 And here we're talking about when something is spilled on the ground.
6:01 What do you need to do?
6:02 Well, you need to clean up a mess.
6:05 And for me as a mother,
6:07 I need to clean up a lot of messes,
6:09 but I also need to teach my children to clean up their own messes.
6:16 When they spill something, they need to learn to clean up their own messes.
6:21 So, you see there's a little bit of grammatical flexibility here.
6:25 We could say clean up a mess
6:27 or I need to clean up my mess.
6:30 You need to clean up your own mess.
6:34 It's true.
6:34 All right, let's see how this was used in the original context.
6:38 Uh, I use it sometimes to dry dishes or clean up messes.
6:43 I have a lot of messes around my house.
6:46 Someone is always spilling something.
6:49 Important everyday English phrase number five is father figure.
6:54 Now, when I talked about this in the original context,
6:57 it was in a little bit of a joke.
6:59 But when we use this in everyday life,
7:01 we're talking about an important man who was a role model for you.
7:06 This is not your real father.
7:08 This is someone who is like a father to you.
7:12 You looked up to them.
7:13 So for a lot of people, it might be your basketball coach,
7:17 your baseball coach, or maybe a teacher in your life.
7:20 Um uh there is not a specific father figure in my life beside my
7:25 real father,
7:26 but I want to give you an example about my current life.
7:30 My husband Dan is like a father figure for some of his students.
7:36 Some of his students don't have a father who is present in their life.
7:41 So my husband Dan is an important male role model for them.
7:47 Whether or not they realize it at the moment,
7:50 he is someone who they look up to
7:52 and someone who is an important man in their life.
7:55 He is a father figure to many of his students.
7:59 All right, let's see how this was used in the original context.
8:03 And I used it a bit like a joke.
8:06 It's on a t-shirt.
8:08 So, if you want to get the full context for that,
8:10 you're welcome to watch the original video where I folded the laundry
8:14 and talked about it along the way.
8:16 All right, let's watch.
8:18 Oh, you have to see this shirt.
8:20 This is one of Dan's t-shirts that I got him.
8:22 It says, "It's not a dad, bod, it's a father figure."
8:28 Important everyday English phrase number six is in charge of.
8:33 I love learning phrases like this because when you learn them together,
8:37 it's easier than remembering grammatical rules like when do I use of prepositions?
8:44 What are the rules?
8:45 No, you just remember the full phrase.
8:47 In charge of.
8:49 I am in charge of folding the laundry in my house.
8:53 Next week, my children will be in charge of checking my neighbors mail
8:58 because my neighbors will be on vacation.
9:01 It is their job to check her mail.
9:04 So, they are in charge of the mail.
9:07 All right, let's see how this was originally used in the context of doing
9:13 chores at home. and we'll see.
9:15 Let's watch.
9:16 Now, Dan, my husband, he is in charge of dishes.
9:21 So, he does dishes every night and I do laundry, I don't know,
9:27 every couple days.
9:29 Important everyday English phrase number seven is kind of a long one,
9:33 so stick with me.
9:34 It is to get in the habit of doing something. to get in the
9:42 habit of doing something for you.
9:45 You are learning English
9:46 and I want you to get in the habit of learning English every day.
9:54 What does that mean?
9:55 It means you need to have the habit.
9:58 You need to have the daily routine of waking up
10:01 and listening to English music.
10:03 Listening to an English podcast
10:05 while you're driving to work. watching my English lessons
10:08 while you're having a coffee break.
10:11 This is the routine of English.
10:13 And notice the grammatical structure here.
10:16 When you get in the habit of learning English,
10:22 that last part needs to have an ing word.
10:26 Learning English.
10:27 I want to get into the habit of walking every day after dinner.
10:33 I want to get in the habit of learning English every day.
10:38 Make sure that you have that final part grammatically correct.
10:41 All right, let's watch how this was used in the original context.
10:45 I know it's not good for energy and for the environment,
10:50 but we use them all the time.
10:52 And I think when you get in the habit of using a dryer,
10:55 it's hard to break that habit, right?
10:57 Important everyday phrase number eight is to look back fondly.
11:03 The key word here is fondly.
11:06 This means with some happiness, maybe some nostalgia.
11:11 It's a little bit bittersweet
11:13 because we're thinking about a good time in the past.
11:17 We are looking back fondly on something that happened.
11:21 So, let me give you a little situation of something
11:23 that often happens in my house.
11:25 when my mother-in-law comes to visit my house
11:29 and my kids are making a mess
11:31 as I talked about before
11:33 and maybe it is the third
11:35 or fourth mess that they have made
11:37 that day.
11:38 I might be a little frustrated.
11:40 Uh now I have to clean up another mess.
11:42 Uh what can I do?
11:43 And she says, I remember when my kids did that.
11:48 Let me help you.
11:49 So, here she is looking back fondly on something
11:53 that was probably difficult at the moment.
11:56 It's difficult to constantly be cleaning up messes for children.
12:00 But when you are a grandparent,
12:03 you can think about the past in kind of a more happy way possibly.
12:09 It's not that it's not a happy life at the moment,
12:12 but sometimes those difficult times don't seem too happy, right?
12:16 So, my mother-in-law can look back fondly on all of the things
12:21 that she had to do in order to raise her kids.
12:24 And we can do that as well.
12:26 We can look back fondly on our childhood.
12:29 And in the future, maybe we'll look back fondly on today.
12:33 Who knows?
12:34 All right, let's see how this was used in the original context.
12:37 Sometimes kids find the strangest things to have fun with, so I leave it.
12:42 And I'm sure someday when my kids are grown,
12:44 I'll look back fondly on those silly things.
12:49 All right, what have we got left?
12:51 All right, we're almost at our bonus word.
12:54 It is coming soon.
12:55 But first, let's get to number nine.
12:59 The ninth important daily life English expression
13:02 that we use all the time
13:04 and that is ideally.
13:08 So here we have the root word ideal.
13:11 This is almost talking about perfection.
13:15 Is perfection possible?
13:17 Absolutely not.
13:19 But when we are making plans or dreams, we sometimes think about perfection.
13:26 This is what I would love to have happen.
13:29 So for me, in my house, ideally,
13:33 I will have dinner prepared before my children come home from school.
13:39 This way when they're at home,
13:41 I can just spend time with them
13:43 and I don't need to think about cooking.
13:46 Do you think this really happens?
13:49 Not very often.
13:51 That's a lot of prep work.
13:53 It's a lot of organization and sometimes I just don't feel like it.
13:58 So, I use the word ideally.
14:00 In my dream world, this would happen.
14:03 Ideally, I would be totally prepared
14:06 when my children come home
14:08 and I could just spend time with them.
14:10 I wouldn't need to be cooking.
14:11 But this is kind of in a dream world, an ideal world,
14:16 this perfect world that we don't live in.
14:18 It's just an ideal.
14:20 All right, let's see how this phrase was used in the original context.
14:24 And I want to remind you
14:25 that you can use every single one of these words in the bonus audio.
14:30 You'll be repeating sentences with me
14:33 so that you'll not only hear me
14:35 and see that original context,
14:37 but you'll be able to speak out loud
14:39 and solidify these words in your mind
14:42 so that you can use them
14:43 when you're speaking and having an English conversation.
14:46 So, make sure that you download
14:47 that PDF worksheet plus the bonus audio
14:50 so that you never forget these words.
14:52 Ideally, you will never forget them.
14:55 All right, let's watch the original context.
14:58 Uh, this is my husband's colored shirt.
15:00 So, I would call
15:01 that a short sleeve colored shirt
15:05 and it gets hung up in the closet ideally.
15:11 So, I will put it on the couch.
15:14 Our 10th important daily life everyday English expression is to do chores.
15:24 What is doing chores?
15:27 Well, this simply means that you are doing those mundane, not fun,
15:33 usually tasks that help keep your life going.
15:37 It might be cooking a meal.
15:39 It might mean doing the dishes.
15:41 It might mean going to the post office.
15:44 It might mean mowing the lawn.
15:46 These are things that are necessary.
15:49 They are kind of the structure of our lives usually
15:52 because they happen every day.
15:55 And these are the things that are necessary but not always fun.
15:59 Over the summer, we recently implemented a deep cleaning Saturday with my whole family
16:06 and we tried to trick our children into thinking
16:09 that chores are fun.
16:11 So, we gave everyone a chore to do
16:14 and we all do the chores together.
16:17 This is a way of keeping motivated
16:19 but also making it feel like we are a team.
16:22 We are working together.
16:23 Kids can do chores.
16:25 Adults have to do chores,
16:27 but sometimes it's more fun when we just do chores together.
16:30 So, let's see how this was used in the original context.
16:34 And I hope you will feel a little more motivated to do chores in
16:38 your own life.
16:39 Let's watch.
16:40 And I think in general, just helping kids learn chores is good.
16:46 But if you are a parent
16:47 and you have ever tried to teach children how to do chores,
16:53 you will know that it is 10 times the amount of effort.
16:58 Oh, I have so many unmatched socks.
17:02 Are you ready for our bonus important everyday phrase?
17:06 It is the word fancy.
17:09 Now in American English and in British English, this means something elegant or expensive.
17:18 I have a fancy necklace
17:20 that I like to wear
17:22 when I go to a nice restaurant.
17:25 Okay, that's a fancy necklace.
17:27 Or maybe you could say,
17:28 I only want to go to fancy restaurants when I go on a date.
17:33 I will never go to a simple, inexpensive restaurant on a date.
17:38 Well, that's a little bit difficult maybe,
17:41 but here we're talking about something that's expensive.
17:44 This is the same in the UK and in the US,
17:47 but I want you to pay attention
17:49 and do not make this mistake
17:51 because in British English,
17:54 if you are in the UK,
17:56 let's say you go to London
17:57 and you're visiting some friends in London
18:00 and they invite you to a fancy dress party.
18:05 What do you think that means?
18:07 I thought it meant you wear a really nice expensive dress.
18:11 You get to wear sparkly earrings.
18:14 Nope.
18:15 This means that it is a costume party, almost like a Halloween party.
18:21 Can you imagine how embarrassed I was
18:23 when I showed up at the party dressed in a really nice dress,
18:27 my hair all fancy, and everyone else was dressed like a bear,
18:33 like a clown?
18:35 What?
18:35 Vanessa, what are you dressed as?
18:37 A princess.
18:39 So, don't make this mistake.
18:41 In the UK, in England,
18:44 a fancy dress party is not related to the word fancy like we were
18:50 talking about a fancy restaurant.
18:52 Instead, it's a costume party.
18:55 This term doesn't really exist in the US. we would just say a costume
19:00 party or maybe a Halloween party
19:03 if it's around October 31st.
19:06 So now you know.
19:07 All right, let's see how the word fancy was used in the original context
19:12 so that you never forget it.
19:13 Let's watch.
19:14 In the end, I would rather save the time.
19:18 I don't have fancy clothes.
19:20 Maybe that's it.
19:20 If I had fancy clothes, then I would take more care to separate them,
19:28 but I don't.
19:30 Well, congratulations.
19:31 You just learned 10 plus one bonus important everyday English expressions in context.
19:38 What's the next step?
19:39 Well, the next step is to download the free PDF worksheet
19:44 and you'll get that bonus downloadable audio,
19:47 this speaking practice that will help you to never forget these phrases ever again.
19:52 You will shadow with my voice, speak out loud,
19:55 so that when you go into a real English conversation,
19:58 you will be absolutely prepared to express yourself wonderfully.
20:03 To get the free PDF worksheet, just click on the link in the description,
20:07 enter your name and email address, and voila, just like that,
20:11 the PDF worksheet will land in your email inbox.
20:15 It is my gift to you.
20:17 And now I have a question for you.
20:19 In the comments, I want to know, in your ideal life,
20:24 would you wear comfy clothes or fancy clothes every day?
20:29 Let me know in the comments.
20:31 I can't wait to see what you have to say.
20:33 And thank you so much for learning English with me.
20:36 I'll see you again next Friday for a new lesson here on my YouTube
20:40 channel.
20:41 Bye.
20:41 But wait, do you want more?
20:43 I recommend watching this video next.
20:46 This is the original video
20:47 that included over 50 important daily life English expressions
20:52 that you will learn
20:54 while I am simply folding the laundry.
20:56 You're invited to my house.
20:58 Go watch that video and find